We both work in management in the pharmaceutical industry. My workplace is quite stressful and we quickly became best friends within weeks of her joining the company where I work. Working in stressful conditions upwards of 12 hours per day often pushes people together – the shared stress can concrete a friendship quickly.
We spent many hours working each day and an hour or two talking late at night in the office – venting to each other about the demanding work conditions. Because these types of situations often happen in stressful conditions, I suspected nothing when we were drawn to each other and became best friends nearly overnight.
Eventually the project that we were working on together required fewer hours of our time, and the 12-16 hour days shortened. Even though it was no longer necessary, we continued staying at the office for 12 hours a day or longer. We would work all day and when the other employees left the office (usually around 4pm), we would hang out talking in one of our offices. After a few weeks of this, we started leaving the office earlier and going to the local business hotel that also housed a restaurant/bar. We would have drinks and just talk for hours. I felt such a connection with her. I had never felt so close to anyone before. She just…. “got” me.